Top 3 philosophies of my life

Hello everyone from now-on-wards, I am starting a new category where I will share my philosophy, and beliefs in my life.

Hope you will find something worth following/implementing in your life from these articles.

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In today's article, I will share three philosophies I follow from the day I listened/read them.

These philosophies are the root of what I am, this is the top rules/philosophies I follow and which made my life easier and happier.

1. "You Never Lose, You Always Learn" - You may have read this in one of my previous articles, I have even written this on my website's home page. I heard this quote from Harsh Mariwala, in one of the Beerbiceps Podcasts. I love this quote because it's true, every failure teaches us something important, I believe failure teaches more than success ever does.

There is always an opportunity to learn from your mistakes and make things right in the future. I remember this quote in my failure and try to make things right. I write things that I could have done to succeed and remember them for the future, or possibly I try to fix them immediately.

2. "Love what you do, don't do what your love" - I read this quote on Twitter, it was twitted by Ali Abdaal. We have always been told or believed that you will become successful by doing what you love. I too believe it to some extent, but I also believe that not everyone has the luxury to have that choice of selecting what they want to do.

Even if you have the luxury to select what you want to do in life, not everything related to it would be enjoyable to you. Many things for example, if I want to become a doctor, I may love studying for it, but maybe I don't like some subjects in it.

So when you have the mindset of loving everything you do, you will be less procrastinating and complete your work with the same passion you would have done when doing things that you love.

3. "Give everyone 3 chances to stay, if they fail, leave them and ever look back" - I couldn't recollect where I listen to this quote, I believe in one of Ranveer Allahbadia's Podcast, one of his company's (Monk Entertainment) co-founders Viraj Seth said this.

And to be honest I have followed this quote and have removed many people who were making my life toxic, who were very important.

It feels a little depressing at first but it's okay, your favorite people can change and break your heart seeing them maat at new friends, ignoring you making you feel worthless, it's okay to just let them go and move on.

Not everytime it's the other person's mistake, maybe we over-expected from them, but if we can't handle our disappointment we should probably remove them from our life.

How to choice if whom to remove from life?

It's a seperate topic on its own, but in general, I message them 3 times, not on the same day obviously, in a weeks interval, if they don't message me by themselves first and even after the message if they don't reply properly (and if I feel that they don't want me anymore), I stop texting and remove them from my favorite list (not in contact but from the heart)

I will write a separate article on it, where I will explain this quote and give you example in detail.

That's all for today, I hope you enjoyed it and I hope you found the least one philosophy from this article worth following, a comment which one you are going to follow in the comment :)

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🤫What I did this week

Songs I Listen 🎶

English Songs

I started exploring songs by One Direction and Harry Style and I am loving them! My favorite songs by them are Night Changes and As it Was.

Hindi Song

I explored two Hindi songs this week by accident and now are my top favorite, one of them is "bekarar karke hume" and the second is "sagar jaisi aankhon wali".

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Weekly Favorite

Series I watched 🎬

This week I binge-watched "Stranger Things", it's so good, I can't stop watching 🤫😭

Do you know the funny part? I somehow thought it was a funny series😅 it was after I started watching the series, I realized it was actually more horror/thriller.

If you have any recommendations for me to watch any movie/series, let me know in the comment or connect with me on my social media.